Sometimes one of the toughest parts of the job of being a
pastor and to be considered a community leader is offering counsel to the
community when it is apparent there is a deep and sharp divide.
Recently the LGBTQIA community was faced with a deep and
sharp divide.
February 4, 2012 a young gay man was savagely beaten as he
came out of a store in his neighborhood. This young man by the name of Brandon White became
an instant poster child for a hate crime law in Georgia because the idiots who
felt they had the right to beat him, filmed it and well the rest is history.
On February 8, 2012 CNN reporter Moni Basu wrote the
following about the crime:
“A video circulated
online shows three men punching and kicking White after he stepped out of the
JVC Grocery and Deli in southwest Atlanta's Pittsburgh neighborhood. The men,
believed to be members of a gang called Jack City, yelled: "No f----ts in
Jack City."
The store's
surveillance video shows White, dressed in a purple shirt and black jeans with
a cell phone to his left ear, exit the store along with another man. As soon as
they step outside, White is accosted by his attackers.
The surveillance
video captured eight men standing around watching, two of them with video
cameras in hand. One man lunges at White with a tire in his hands.
White told HLN later
Wednesday that he went home after the 30-second attack.
"At this point I
am beyond mad," he told Jane Velez-Mitchell. "I actually go back
because I wanted to see who they were."
Atlanta police said
the incident occurred February 4.
White said he did not
report it right away because he did not want to draw attention to himself. He
could not even bring himself to watch the video at first; he was so humiliated
and embarrassed.
The video was
released on YouTube and WorldHipHop.com, and was posted on The Smoking Gun.
When it went viral,
White decided to talk to the police. "Once they put it out there they set
themselves up," he told HLN.
"I feel I was
violated," White told reporters. "The scars run deeper than anyone
will know. The physical pain, I can get over that. My thing is: Who's to say
they won't come after me again? Who's to say they won't kill me?"
Now, the sharp divide starts as everybody who is anybody in
the LGBTQIA community and politicians have something to say. Rumors start, fabricated stories start and
soon the truth of what happen and why gets blurred.
At about this time it seemed to me just observing from the
outside that the victim was being “handled”.
I will leave it to the reader to decide what that term means in the
larger picture…but I assure you the fighting and name calling that went on
between some of the leaders of our community toward each other was not pretty.
In the meantime arrests were made for 3 of 4. One is still on the run, and the other three
have come before a judge and have been sentenced to 5 years in jail and 5 years
probation. Not so bad considering they
were potentially facing 50 years.
Ah, but the sentencing was not without drama and plenty of
opinion.
A letter was sent to the court by Southerners on New Ground
a non-profit group dedicated to building a political home across race, class,
culture, gender & sexuality.
I have deep respect for this organization and the work they
do. The respect I have for some of the
signers is just as deep and in fact a few I would consider s/heros.
The letter said in part: “With great respect to the Court, we must reiterate that we believe the
homophobia underlying physical attacks on LGBTQ individuals is not remedied
through imprisonment. We are supportive of Mr. Morgane and Mr. William being
permitted to regain their freedom by imposing sentences that will hold each
young man to account for his actions through probation or community service.”
To say this action set off a fire storm of opinion would be
to put it mildly. There was so much
controversy caused by the action that SONG posted a statement concerning their action
on their website, http://southernersonnewground.org/
In the mean time SONG has been ridiculed and publically
chastised for trying to apply a principle every Christian is supposed to apply,
that of mercy.
I suppose the best summation of the harsh criticism of SONG
came in the form of a response by a reader of a GA Voice article concerning the
letter in which they wrote:
“The signatories of
the letter seem to be treating this as some kind of disorderly conduct charge. Beyond belief... I can only hope that the
judge will not go along with this kind of thinking when deciding a sentence,
especially when we already have a bad situation in Fulton County where too many
revolving-door criminals are getting away with way too much. A lenient sentence
would convey the tragic message that we are not entitled to feel safe in our
communities. That these are not even first-time offenders, and that they
perpetrated this brutal act pretty much for the hell of it makes their crime
and the sympathy for these thugs exhibited in that letter all the more
reprehensible...”
“So Pastor what is your problem?” “Pick a side and say your piece.” I wish it were that easy.
It is not easy because the brutes that beat Mr. White did
what they did because they have been told and have learned that it is perfectly
fine to beat the crap out of a person just because they are gay.
We are seeing this happen more often with the advancements
our community has made not less.
Have we forgotten the 2 lesbians who were shot?
Have we forgotten the so called pastor who ordered his
church members to beat his own son and lover?
Have we forgotten the insane number of transgender folks slaughtered every year?
Have we forgotten the young child that committed suicide
because he was being bullied on a daily basis?
Have we forgotten there are churches that commit spiritual
violence on us every day by proclaiming we are destroying America?
This list could get really long…
Have we forgotten how hard we have fought to get “hate crime
laws” in place to send a message that visiting violence upon our community “just
because” is not cool? A law in many
other states but not here in Georgia.
So yes, I get the frustration on the part of some in our
community concerning this letter. I have
felt the white hot anger of being a victim of a gay bashing, I have felt the
helplessness. I wanted my beaters to go
to jail for a long time.
However, to viciously berate a community group of our own
who are trying to advocate for justice and mercy in a world where the justice
and prison system are fatally broken is flat wrong.
These young people who committed this crime were lost before
they went after Mr. White.
We live in a world were violence is glorified, and we allow
the church to sell us a bill of goods concerning sexual orientation. So we are shocked and enraged by this story?
We seem to pick and choose when to get angry and raise our
voices…Brandon White is not the poster child for hate; he is just one more
victim in a very long history of crap sent our way.
We are re-acting
instead of acting.
With that said, I respectfully say to SONG; while I
appreciate the efforts, agree with the sentiment, the timing of this letter was
awful.
I understand what “Restorative
Justice” is supposed to be. I understand the working definition is;
“Restorative justice
(also sometimes called reparative justice[1]) is an approach to justice that
focuses on the needs of the victims and the offenders, as well as the involved
community, instead of satisfying abstract legal principles or punishing the
offender. Victims take an active role in the process, while offenders are
encouraged to take responsibility for their actions, "to repair the harm
they've done—by apologizing, returning stolen money, or community
service".[2] Restorative justice involves both victim and offender and
focuses on their personal needs. In addition, it provides help for the offender
in order to avoid future offences. It is based on a theory of justice that
considers crime and wrongdoing to be an offence against an individual or
community, rather than the state.[3] Restorative justice that fosters dialogue
between victim and offender shows the highest rates of victim satisfaction and
offender accountability.[4]” (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Restorative_justice)
So, if I understand the definition correctly the timing was
bad for lots of reasons not the least of which was the lack of communication
with Mr. White and determining his needs.
It does not matter why this did not happen, it just didn’t.
Further, I am not sure just how much remorse there was on
the part of the offenders as at least one of them is quoted as saying; “I barely hit him. I was wrong for hitting
him but I didn’t hit him to the point of killing him. I was just being young
and dumb.” (ProjectQ)
In fact, I am not sure how much of this working definition
actually happened or will come to pass.
Finally, “restorative justice” cannot and will not work in a
singular high profile case. We have to
totally change the way our justice system works. This means we have to change the laws and the
system that enforces those laws…we have to convince the justice system there is
a better way before the cases get in front of them.
Until then we are stuck with, “if you do the crime, you will
do the time.” That is neither justice or
merciful. So my friends there are no
easy answers, but I have faith in our community that through all this
controversy we will come out better and stronger, because that is how we are!
No comments:
Post a Comment