Friday, March 23, 2012

The Sin of Superiority

Let us start with a definition according to “Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia”. Now there are lots of other -isms’s that could be brought up which are just as brutal, unfair, and theologically incorrect. However, if we could just get to a place where we really understand what “racism” is and where it takes us, then it is a simply step to eradicating the other -ism’s because they all work the same way.
Racism: The Oxford English Dictionary defines racism as the “belief that all members of each race possess characteristics, abilities, or qualities specific to that race, especially so as to distinguish it as inferior or superior to another race or races” and the expression of such prejudice,[11][12] while the Merriam-Webster's Dictionary defines it as a belief that race is the primary determinant of human traits and capacities and that racial differences produce an inherent superiority or inferiority of a particular racial group, and alternatively that it is also the prejudice based on such a belief.[13] The Macquarie Dictionary defines racism as: "the belief that human races have distinctive characteristics which determine their respective cultures, usually involving the idea that one’s own race is superior and has the right to rule or dominate others." Next, let us give a summary of what these definitions, while slightly different, are pointing to. What each of these definitions are ultimately talking about is “power and control,” the belief that somehow among humans there is a sense of superiority over other people because of skin color and culture and therefore has the privilege to rule over another group of people.


The dirty little secret around this subject is that the racists themselves do not want to admit that for hundreds of years they have lived with the idea they somehow were superior simply because they were free and in this country white. In fact good hearted and kind people get bent out of shape when this conversation comes up because they do not want to be lumped in with the despicable kinds of behavior that racism allows.

However, what is forgotten is that they are part of a system that has been and still is in many ways racist to the core. Of course I am raising this issue because of the most recent shooting of a young black man Trayvon Martin by a “wanna be” cop.

One of the more interesting quotes I saw surrounding this shooting was, “I think too many people make this an issue of black or white. We have not the other side. If in fact this was racially motivated…it was wrong. But what about white Americans being shot by other ethnicity? You just never hear about this. I feel the “race” card is used more than it should be. And that Americans truly affected by “race” are truly served an injustice. It is not a black or white thing…it is a “HUMAN” thing!!”

While on the surface this statement might be partially true, it misses the point of what happen to this young man. It was an act of racism no matter how you slice and dice the debate. When one listens to the 911 call that CNN got it is obvious the shooter uses a racial slur in response to the victim. I know the commenter’s kept trying to cover their butts as to what was said, but my ears work pretty well and it was pretty obvious the phrase used by the shooter was “f****** c***”.

If one is not feeling superior this phrase is never uttered. Then we get commentary from some political bureaucrat that if this child of God would have just stopped and answered the shooter’s questions there would have been a different outcome. Really?

I can damn well tell you had that been me in a hoodie and I was walking to my Mother’s house and some dude starts following me and asking questions and it was obvious to me he was not a police officer I am not stopping or talking either.

Now let’s add to the fact that when the police do show up they see a black kid down and the shooter saying he was threaten and they just let him go? In fact according to news reports the most bizarre part of the police statement is “Zimmerman tells police he killed Martin in self defense. Taking him at his word, police do not arrest him, nor administer a drug or alcohol test. They also did not run a background check.” This was an unarmed kid shot 3 times… Why? Simple, it was a black kid with a hoodie. It does not take a rocket scientist to see an act of superiority at work here.

I may be naïve here, but logic would say you take the shooter into custody until you can figure out what happened. The fact this guy, who had no law enforcement authority, has not been arrested speaks volumes.

In a related story, there was another shooting in Florida where a white guy got shot by a black guy, and guess what? Yup, the black guy has been arrested and charged. Why?

Where all this is taking me is back to one of the definitions of racism:
"the belief that human races have distinctive characteristics which determine their respective cultures, usually involving the idea that one’s own race is superior and has the right to rule or dominate others."
It is this whole idea that we continue to believe in this country that God created the human being to be superior to one another. Nothing could be further from the truth.

However, the plain facts of the matter are;

We still live in a world where women make .70 for every dollar a man makes.

We still live in a world where men are superior to women.

We still live in a world where being white is superior to any other color.

We still live in a world where heterosexuals are superior to homosexuals.

We still live in a world where if your gender identity doesn’t fit a rigid definition of what is male and female--well let’s just say the results are not pretty.

We live in a world where one religion is superior to another.

We live in a world where cultures are superior to another.

We live in a world where the more money one has that somehow makes them better than those who have less.

Call me crazy but these –isms, regardless of whether it is race, sex, gender, economic or just about any other label you can think, are not going to get better until we wake up.

We need to wake up to the fact that no one person is superior to another. No one race or culture is superior to another. No one gender is superior to the other. Love and intimacy is meant to be shared by all regardless of gender or gender identity. Despite what folks may try to tell you the “human being” in this world, on this planet is one body and the sooner we recognize that the better off we will be. From my faith background a New Testament author by the name of Paul wrote:
Even so the body is not made up of one part but of many. Now if the foot should say, “Because I am not a hand, I do not belong to the body,” it would not for that reason stop being part of the body. And if the ear should say, “Because I am not an eye, I do not belong to the body,” it would not for that reason stop being part of the body. If the whole body were an eye, where would the sense of hearing be? If the whole body were an ear, where would the sense of smell be? But in fact God has placed the parts in the body, every one of them, just as God wanted them to be. If they were all one part, where would the body be? As it is, there are many parts, but one body. The eye cannot say to the hand, “I don’t need you!” And the head cannot say to the feet, “I don’t need you!” On the contrary, those parts of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable, and the parts that we think are less honorable we treat with special honor. And the parts that are unpresentable are treated with special modesty, while our presentable parts need no special treatment. But God has put the body together, giving greater honor to the parts that lacked it, so that there should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each other. If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it.”1 Corinthians 12:14-26 New International Version

The -isms of our world are an injustice to the human condition and as Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King wrote from the Birmingham Jail, April 16, 1963 “Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.”

Friday, March 9, 2012

How Tangled the Webs We Weave



As I write this blog my heart is broken, my mind is filled with rage and my emotions are all over the block.

The cause is simple, our LGBTQI youth are being let down by the very people who ought to be holding them up and supporting them. Once again, the youth of our community are being kicked around like some political football just so some adults in a public meeting can show their butts.

Kind of a harsh assessment isn’t it, Rev.?

Well for anyone who was at the town hall meeting this past Tuesday in Atlanta at St. Mark’s United Methodist Church might find this assessment not harsh enough.

Yes, this meeting was called to discuss with the community at large a non-profit group whose sole purpose was to take care of the needs of LGBTQI youth by the name of Youth Pride was in serious trouble.

Yes, this particular meeting was to be about the “findings” of a task force of community folks about the situation at Youth Pride and what could be done to help.

Young people from Youth Pride were invited to the meeting (I have no idea why or who invited them), but as it turns out, this was a huge mistake.

Whatever the initial good intentions of this ad hoc group were, they never got to first base with moving towards a resolution that would assure the youth that, no matter what was happening to Youth Pride the non-profit; their needs would still be met with as little drama as possible.

Instead, what we got was a report that was handed out to everyone and read like something akin to looking at crime scene photos from a mass murder.

Call me old fashioned, but these kids did not need to see or hear that.

There are good reasons folks are not allowed to look at crime scene photos, and I got to tell you, there was no valid reason for these kids to witness what they did Tuesday night.

These kids are not stupid, and they knew Youth Pride was in trouble. They even knew there was a distinct possibility that because of lousy fiscal management (to put it lightly) they may have to move to another location or another kind of organization.

Sadly, what they got to see was much like watching a set of parents fight over them and finger point in the nastiness of a divorce.

The anger of the task force group was apparent and, according to the report, it was with good reason. However, 99.9% of the people in the room could read, and we didn’t need to have a long drawn out explanation of each item on the report to make the case of how bad things are for Youth Pride.

It might have been much better for the leader of the meeting to say, "You can see the results of the report, and based on the report, what do we want to do?"

I would suggest (hindsight is always 20-20) this task force should have taken their findings to the Board of Directors of Youth Pride…Oh wait, there is no Board or at least a functioning one. Well, then take the results to the Executive Director and when that is met with disdain, denial and diversions of “something big is coming,” release the report to the press and make plans to call the community together to start a new Youth Pride II.

This would have given time to talk to the kids and get their input about their needs and desires for a place in the community where they could go and be safe.

This ad hoc group could have begun the work of lining up people to come together whose only goal was to make sure these kids were safe.

From what the community already knew there were plenty of reasons for starting to make plans for Youth Pride II. We all knew that Youth Pride did not have a functioning board, therefore could not legally operate. Hell at this point I am not sure they can even legally issue a check to pay for anything. We all knew they had been given an eviction notice and therefore had no place to be. We all knew the ED was talking from a fantasy land that no non-profit can survive. So why this drama to prove Youth Pride was dying or dead?

Just when you think that things could not get any worse for those kids setting there, in comes the ED to defend “his” work. The behavior of ED in this public meeting and in front of the kids from the Youth Pride was despicable and flat unprofessional. If the ED had been a little more humble and had anything to say to the community it might have been, “I need your help we have had some tough times, some of my own making. And while this might be asking long after the horse is out of the barn--what can we do to help save Youth Pride?”

One final point. As it turns out, I am thankful there was a noticeable lack of attendance by the community at large. I shudder to think what this meeting would have turned into had that room been full of all those who should have been there.

Yet there lies a rub, where was everybody? Oh yes there were some of those you would expect to be there, and there were some who just couldn’t be there but where was the rest of the community.

Where were all the Pastors or their representatives?
Where were the Synagogues or their representatives?
Where were the Mosques? Where were the Temples?
Where were the Churches? Where were all the AIDS organizations?
Where were the City Council folks or their representatives?
Hell where was the Mayor? Was he invited to give us possibilities of how the city could or would help?
Where were the family type non-profits?
Where were the sports groups?
Where were the social groups?
Where were the business owners?
Where were all the social workers and therapists?
Where was the average everyday LGBTQI adult person?

My friends, St. Mark’s should have been full because there is nothing more important than the youth of our community. They are our future, they are our legacy, and they are our kids. Nobody is going to look out for their needs but us.

What we do today is for those who will follow after us, just like the ones before us who paved the way.

The ED and what is left of Youth Pride is going to do what it is going to do. If it succeeds in surviving then we need to be there to make sure this mess never happens again.

In the real world of non-profits, Youth Pride has no money, no board of Directors, an ED who is drowning in red ink, and a lack of support. Short of changing water into wine kind of miracle, Youth Pride as we know it is finished and simply waiting for the death rattle.

So now it is time to step up to the plate and make sure the transition from one support group to another is as seamless and painless as possible.

The contacts at the task force should now be over-whelmed with calls and offers to write checks, volunteers to come to a planning meeting, to offer services free if needed.

To the task force, you have made your report. Now if you are able and willing let’s make sure we don’t lose these kids.

Jesus said a long time ago, “let the children come to me” We as the whole community need to say the same thing to our LGBTQI youth. When the next meeting is called, I will be there. Can our youth count on you?